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WHEN LIFE HAPPENS Part 2: Stroll in, or Barge in?

WHEN LIFE HAPPENS Part 2: Stroll in, or Barge in? In the previous part, we established the fact that no one can escape change, it will surely come.                What distinguishes individuals is how they respond to change. To delve deeper into this topic,                I’ll like to discuss change under two categories. I categorize change in two forms, they are: The change that strolls into our lives.  The change that barges into our lives. Each of these two forms of change listed above has both the positive and negative change           embedded in them. That is, the change that strolls into our lives can either be positive or negative.           Also, the change that barges into our lives can be a positive change and it can also be a negative          Change. What do I mean by the change that strolls ...

WHEN LIFE HAPPENS Part 1: THE CONSTANT

  WHEN LIFE HAPPENS Part 1: THE CONSTANT In the equation of life, change remains a constant; a fixed value that’s never altered by the alternating variables around it. In fact, all variables dance to the tune of the constant in any equation they find themselves. Irrespective of the length of the equation, no matter how long it takes to get the equation solved, the constant remains unmoved. Every equation is a process targeted towards achieving a desired result, it’s either you cooperate with the constant to attain the desired result, or you sideline the constant and ditch your desired result. The desired result can never be attained without cooperating with the constant of the equation, and such is life. Life is an equation, a process driving towards a result. However, life has a constant in its equation and that constant is called “Change.” Change is no respecter of status, it doesn’t care if you’re wealthy or not, it has no gender preference, it pays no attention to your height, ...
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  The Essence of Time Let’s talk about Time. It’s an enigma that governs our lives yet slips through our fingers. Time is both our greatest ally and our most daunting foe. From the moments of severe trials to the treasures that emerge, time is the silent witness to our journey. It's one attribute that remain glued to us, even when its presence seems to have slipped our memory.  How do you see time? What’s your view of it? Have you ever had a deep thought of what time is and how it affects you? What opinion do you have about time? Many people flow in and out of our lives, like a river. Challenges and trials drill into our existence, but they never stay for ever. However, time remain glued to us, come rain, come shine. In your happy days, time is there with you. In your darkest hour, its presence still hovers around you. What’s our viewpoint of time in days of adversities? Those days feel...

MY JOURNEY SO FAR: WRITING THE NOVEL TITLED “THE DANCE OF LOVE AND PAIN”

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  2018 was the year it all began, just a few months after I graduated from university. I had joined a WhatsApp group named “Singles & Married,” and was always thrilled by the series of short stories shared on the platform. As I read through the stories, I felt a nudge deep within me, beckoning from the abyss of my soul, whispering, “You can also write engaging and thrilling stories.” Back in primary school, I had written several short children’s stories which I compiled into a storybook. That was the plan, but it didn’t work...

SOME QUOTES BY JS HAVILAH

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SOME QUOTES BY JS HAVILAH v    Life is in stages; each stage comes with a challenge. It’s either you overcome it, or it overcomes you. The choice resides within you. v    Your decisions are hands typing the script of your life. v    Life is a journey with different routes. The one you take determines the hustle and bustle you face. v    Your tongue is powerful, it can calm a stormy heart, but note that it can also stab a man and leave him bleeding. v   Life is a script. Your decisions are cursives of your destination. v Commitment is the fuel that helps you ascend the staircase of success. v Without love, the world will dive into extinction.  

THE VOICE OF GIFT AND TALENT

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No child journeys into the world as an empty vessel. Deep within every man lies a voice craving expression, a voice resonating from within the core of their being. A voice some have yielded to, a voice some have shut down and left dormant. A voice screaming, yet unheard. For some, that voice had been stabbed and left bleeding. For some, it’s a voice that has remained undiscovered, a voice untapped. Yes, there are many voices, but there is a voice of gift, a voice of talent. Circumstances of a child can be both internal and external, however, some internal circumstances are products of the external. The voice of gift and talent is not an external voice, it is a voice that flows from within, and oftentimes it can be ignited by the external. GIFT: This refers to various things, it can be a physical object transferred voluntarily from one person to another, it can also be an act of kindness. However, the gift referred to in this article is a God-given special ability, an endowment, an outs...

VICTIMS OF LOVE?

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Many hearts have crashed severally, while millions are currently crashing because of this four-letter word: LOVE. Heartbreak have become a norm in our society as it appears to have come to stay. Many are drowning in the pit of agony, deception, and betrayal, because of this same word: LOVE. They have been submerged in pain, stabbed with a dagger in their hearts and left to bleed. Many hearts have crashed so hard against their ribs that it echoed in their brains,  all because of LOVE. Some people call them "Victims of Love." Is that the truth? Love is good, love is fun, and love is pleasurable. Love births great things, but when not properly handled, a lover can become a victim. As pleasurable as love is, it has been misused and abused by many. Many victims have crawled to recovery while the scar remained permanent, but many never recovered. Was love meant to be a source of pain and distress? Is it right to call them victims of love? The fact that many have abused love d...